[Athena Sky]

Respect your wife’s mood as well. It should be give and take between you two. If she accommodates you sometimes, that should already be enough. Don’t always insist on having things your way. Don’t you have children or other things to focus on instead of worrying too much about having an adventurous sex life?

[Athena Sky]

It sounds like you misread the situation—you let your emotions take over without first making sure what you two really were. You acted impulsively, but since it already happened, there’s nothing you can do about it now. You should just move on. It’s clear that she doesn’t have romantic feelings for you. And since you’re far apart anyway, I think it might be best if you cut off communication with her so you can move on faster.

[Athena Sky]

Maybe she just wants to start as friends first. That’s actually a good foundation too—friendship before dating. Try to get closer to her first and build her trust. Once she feels comfortable and more at ease with you, you can ask her out again and then decide what to do next depending on her answer.

[Athena Sky]

It’s normal for teenagers to explore and act like that. But right is right and wrong is wrong—that was your choice, and you wanted that. So whatever consequences come from what you did, you have to accept them. Hopefully, you learned something from what happened so that next time you won’t make the same mistake again.

[Athena Sky]

You’re still young, and the girl you’re talking to is even younger. There’s something missing in this situation. If you don’t stop, it’s not good because she is still under the legal age. Just move on and find someone your age or older, as long as they are of legal age.

It’s normal for her father to react that way. If you really care about her, then you can wait until she is old enough to make her own decisions—if you are able to wait.

[Athena Sky]

It’s better for you to move on. He is not consistent with what he really wants, and he also doesn’t stand by his decisions. Just find someone who truly deserves you and is worth your love—someone who won’t leave you hanging like what your boyfriend did.

[Athena Sky]

It’s not a good idea for a woman to chase a man—it can become a turn-off for men because it removes the challenge they’re looking for. My advice is just wait and see if he initiates again. And if he invites you out again, it would be good to clarify what he really wants and what his intentions are toward you, so next time you won’t be confused anymore.

[Athena Sky]

Only you can answer that, not us. Why don’t you try asking this girl out on a date—the one you can’t stop thinking about? Maybe she’s “the one.” Try courting someone so you can have a girlfriend. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with you.

[Athena Sky]

That is difficult, but it’s up to your girlfriend how she handles it. You’re right that she’s not a child anymore. My question is, is she still financially dependent on her parents? If not, then she should probably be able to make her own decisions. If she is, then that might be something she’s taking into consideration, which could be why she still can’t fully stand up for the relationship at this time.
But hopefully she will also try, and you can help her by proving yourself to her parents so they can get to know you and eventually approve of you as well. Just show them that you have good intentions, that you love their daughter, and that you won’t cheat on or hurt her.

[Athena Sky]

It’s clear that he is seeing someone else. There’s nothing wrong with you—you’re not being overreacting. It’s normal to feel upset about what he’s doing.
If he doesn’t change, you should just leave for your own peace of mind. There’s no real reason to continue the relationship if your boyfriend isn’t being loyal to you. It’s better to move on, even if it’s hard, than to keep being lied to and hurt.

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