[Chloe Nicole]

What sense does it make if he deletes you on Facebook or if you delete him—you’re already broken up. Even if you don’t delete him, nothing will change anyway.
Just focus on how to move on. Find someone else to date or join your friends when they go out and have fun. Keep yourself busy, etc. Instead of still thinking about him or what he might be thinking—nothing will change anymore anyway.

[Chloe Nicole]

First, he is your boss, so maybe he doesn’t want what you two are doing to affect your work relationship. I’m not sure, but that’s one possible reason.
Second, maybe he is not that interested in you, which is why he can’t bring himself to have sex with you. If you think about it, he’s a man, and you’re already at the point where it could happen, but he still doesn’t go through with it. So maybe he’s not that interested in you.
Third, maybe he doesn’t want commitment yet. Those are the possible reasons I can see.

[Chloe Nicole]

My advice is, why don’t you try again when you happen to be in her area? Like you said, you’ve got nothing to lose. You’ll never know unless you try.

[Chloe Nicole]

So you’re actually a womanizer—you didn’t even break up with your girlfriend of 4 years, right? Aren’t you just using her to fill the things your girlfriend can’t give you because she’s far away? She probably thinks the same thing—that when you’re together, lying next to each other, etc., she’s not sure if it’s really her you’re thinking about or your girlfriend who’s far away.

[Chloe Nicole]

How do you know he doesn’t like you—did you ask him? Maybe he actually does like you, and that’s just his way of trying to get your attention so you’ll notice him.

[Chloe Nicole]

I’m honestly surprised at you—why are you tolerating that man? You leave him, but you still go back to him. Even when you had a baby together and he left you because he didn’t want the baby, that alone should have been the moment you ended it. But instead, you also chose to terminate the pregnancy.
Whatever you’re feeling and whatever is happening in your life now, you are also responsible for it. You are the one choosing to make your life miserable with a man who clearly doesn’t care about you.
He knows very well that you can’t leave him. And even if you do, a little persuasion from him and you go back. That’s why he doesn’t change.
Leave him. That’s what you should do. Even a 10-year-old would know what to do in this situation—I honestly don’t understand why you still don’t know what you need to do.

[Chloe Nicole]

That’s just how life is—you need to learn to be strong, especially from your experiences. Not all men are like that; there are still decent ones out there. You’ve just come across people who suddenly leave, but that doesn’t mean all men are the same.

You probably just haven’t found the right one for you yet. But don’t lose hope. You said yourself that you are a decent woman, so you should also be confident in yourself.

Chin up—the right person for you will come in time.

[Chloe Nicole]

If you feel like she is just using you, you have a choice—you can either leave her or just go along with it and play the same game. You can also look for other women as options until you find the right person for you. Don’t get too attached right away; always leave something for yourself so you won’t get hurt in the end. You’re still at the early stage of your relationship.

[Chloe Nicole]

She likes you, but it would be good to ask her directly about how she feels. Then invite her to go out so you can get to know each other better—that’s a good way to start.

[Chloe Nicole]

That happened a long time ago, and your relationship is good now. We all have our own pasts and experiences. You yourself said it wouldn’t be fair to judge him, especially since it happened before you were even together. What matters most is the present.
You asked him, and he answered you honestly. He trusted you enough to tell the truth, believing it wouldn’t change how you see him. Try to focus on what you have now, because that’s what truly matters.

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