[Angelo]

So you don’t end up overthinking or becoming paranoid, it’s better to just confirm it with him. Maybe there’s really nothing going on and you’re just overthinking things.

But to be sure and to give yourself peace of mind, talk to him right away. Whenever you have problems, it’s important that you address them immediately so they don’t get bigger or worse over time.

[Angelo]

Maybe you’re also being a bit insensitive, because sometimes you might not realize that you’re hurting him. Like when he brings up marriage—if you’re not ready, there might be better ways to say it without hurting him. For example, you could say that maybe you both need to become more financially stable first or plan things properly before taking that step.

If you just say that you’re not ready to get married, he will most likely feel hurt and think that something is wrong with him or that he is not enough for you, which is why you’re not ready.

For now, try to really think about what you want—whether you want to leave him or stay with him. Because if you choose to stay, then you both need to work on fixing the problems in the relationship.

[Angelo]

It’s really painful that two of the people you trusted the most ended up betraying you.

Things like this happen, and there’s not much else you can do except one thing: tell your best friend what you found out and confront her. If you need to, let out your anger and everything you’re feeling so at least you can feel a bit lighter afterward.

After that, you should remove her from your life because she betrayed your trust. She is a traitor.

[Angelo]

Instead of distancing yourself, maybe try helping him become less negative. This all started when he began feeling stressed from work, so that seems to be the main reason. Why not go on a vacation together, just the two of you, even for a few days? It might help him relax and reduce the stress he’s feeling from work.

[Angelo]

Aside from moving on, what you can do is talk to her in person. Tell her that you snapped her. Just gently remind her and act like you’re not sure if she saw it, so you can find out why she didn’t reply.

[Angelo]

If you’re at a point in your life where you want to settle down, then you should first find a woman who is truly right for you. Settling down is a long-term, lifelong decision. In the case of your relationship with this woman, I don’t think the two of you are going to reach that point together.

It’s also not healthy for you to keep forgiving her and continuing the relationship, because the same things keep happening over and over again. You no longer trust her, and without trust, a relationship cannot thrive.

My advice is to end it. Ignore her and completely remove her from your life. Start over. And as you begin again, you may eventually meet the woman who will truly be your lifelong partner. That’s the time to settle down.

[Angelo]

There are a lot of people who hold on to relationships even though they are unable or unwilling to meet their partner’s needs. It becomes a one-sided relationship. They only want to receive and have no desire to give anything in return.

If this has been your experience with your partner, then it’s probably better to end the relationship. I know a relationship isn’t supposed to be all about you, but if you don’t see any effort from your partner to make you happy, then that can no longer be called love. And a relationship without love is not going to work.

That’s why it may be better to let it go and bring it to an end.

[Angelo]

It’s okay to be flat-chested. There are plenty of women who are just like you. Just learn to love what you have because breast size is not what determines whether a woman is beautiful or not.

Even if you’re flat-chested, you can still be attractive and sexy. A lot of it comes down to how you carry yourself. There are many celebrities who are flat-chested, yet they are still beautiful and considered very attractive.

That’s why you should embrace what you have and simply be confident in yourself

[Angelo]

Alcohol can really influence people, and sometimes you just get carried away, like what happened at the party when the two of you kissed for several minutes.

I do think she still likes you to some extent because she probably wouldn’t spend time with you if she didn’t. However, based on your story, that’s as far as it has gone. She hasn’t taken any initiative to get back together with you.

From what I can see, it seems like she enjoys the benefits of having you around, but doesn’t want the commitment that comes with being in a relationship. I don’t know the exact reason, especially since you didn’t really talk about your history together, but that’s honestly what it looks like to me

[Angelo]

You’re already saying that you’re going crazy, so why are you still fighting for this relationship? It’s no longer worth fighting for. You don’t need to be confused because it’s already clear that she cheated on you. She chose to be with someone else while you were still together, and there’s really no reason to continue.

I think it’s better if you ignore her and start over. Learn to love yourself again and focus on your own life. Keep yourself busy, spend time hanging out with friends, or even flirt and meet new people just to help yourself move on. I know it’s difficult, but you need to let her go because she’s no longer contributing to your growth, and your mental well-being is already being affected.

It’s time to move on.

[Member]

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