[Mica]

He is just using you. He is also already addicted to his vices, so you should stay away from him. It’s no longer healthy, no matter how much you try to continue it. You might end up being taken advantage of, so my advice is to avoid him.

[Mica]

Maybe just talk to her nicely and tell her that you’re no longer enjoying what you’re doing. Then just ask for her understanding and apologize in advance in case she gets upset.

[Mica]

Just invite her out when she has free time for a dinner date or coffee. Start with a very simple invitation and don’t rush things

[Mica]

You can still fix it if he’s still willing to work things out. It really is that simple—because if you’re the only one trying to fix it, then it’s unlikely to work.
You may need to move on. Also, it’s really hard to make this kind of relationship work; what you’re up against here is boredom and emotional distance.

[Mica]

Maybe you’re just the one thinking she also likes you. You might be overthinking and attaching meaning to everything that’s happening. I think it would be better if you try to confirm it first so you can be more sure.

[Mica]

Maybe you’re just the one thinking she also likes you. You might be overthinking and attaching meaning to everything that’s happening. I think it would be better if you try to confirm it first so you can be more sure.

[Mica]

You are married—stop it. That’s all I can say for now. If you really want that woman, then leave your wife. You do have a choice.

Just don’t choose something that will hurt another person, because if it were done to you, I’m sure you wouldn’t want it either.

[Mica]

To be honest, it is also partly your fault that you didn’t give your wife enough time, which is why she started looking for other things to keep her occupied. But aside from that, that’s the only mistake you made. It is still not enough reason for her to do something wrong or go astray.

Regarding her request to go, especially since you don’t know the group she will be with, it’s understandable that you would feel uncomfortable about it, especially if you are not going with her.

Right now, she also seems a bit rebellious because of the lack of attention she feels from you. It feels like she is trying to make up for it or show that if she doesn’t get attention from you, she will look for it elsewhere.

[Mica]

To be honest, it really is weird—especially if you hadn’t gone and you later found out it was just the two of them, and that he even ended up sleeping at her place. That would definitely feel off for you.

Whether it has a deeper meaning or not, I still think it wasn’t right. At the end of the day, she’s a woman and he’s a man, so for me that situation crosses a line.

[Mica]

If you want an honest answer, it might be better to talk to her about it—even if it happened a long time ago. If you want peace of mind, having an open conversation with her is the best way.

[Mica]

Not all people are the same. Maybe that’s just what she’s used to, and she’s really not that naturally sweet or affectionate.

If you’re not getting what you want or need from the relationship, then you also have the choice not to continue it.

[Mica]

There’s nothing wrong with meeting his family. But if you’re really not comfortable with it yet, just tell him. You do have a choice, and I’m sure he will understand as long as you talk to him properly and honestly

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