[mhmcdade]

Hey yeah I want to. This is a college chick we are talking about that likes to go out every weekend, and has soo many guy friends. I can’t even tell if she is into me. Well, she does respond to all my texts, and when I ask her to hangout she is more than excited. How do I know if I’M being played? Weird for a guy to say that, but I have met many girls that just love the attention but don’t want anything serious. I don’t know what it is I’m doing wrong, because I have pretty much failed every opportunity I have had with every girl. This one is attractive, nice, and has so many friends. I guess I come off as needy for texting so much.

On Monday night after we hungout, me her friend and my friends. I just told her I’m kind of into her over a text, and I’m getting the feeling she wants me to back off. She didn’t respond to that, but next day she texted me. Just ask how my bday was.

[mhmcdade]

We are both 21

[mhmcdade]

“My friend is shy like me”******

[mhmcdade]

hey thanks, that’s good. I’ll keep all that in mind. But how do I fix all this then? I talk to her on facebook because when I want to see her at school, I never do. Is it best to approach a girl in person? and Do you think she was interested at all when I first talked to her

[mhmcdade]

Yah, that’s true. I like her A LOT. Just, I don’t know if I should hanging around like this.We obviously can’t date at the moment, but heres what im asking. I’m alomst never the never first person on her mind, quite a few times over the summer, we had made plans, but she totally forgot about me. At first i would think that she just doesnt care one bit. But kind of discovered she does, she still talks to me often which is nice. I want to see her, and spend more time with her, im just kind of scared of making a stupid mistake … like visiting her at herr college, would that be dumb?

[mhmcdade]

So I found out from her friend, her dad took her phone away and that she likes me. And few weeks later. She gets her phone back..that’s today. She says to me from her friends phone, i got my phone back, i will text you when i get home. I’m like sweet, and I look forward to it. I waited and waited and then alter tonight I texted first and she responded with, I’m sorry I didn’t text you. I was at a game and then I had chores to do. I’m thinking, if shes even into me, she would remember to text me like she said right? If she likes me, she would text me first often wouldnt she? I want to ask her to hang out again, but it would be for the THIRD TIME
…cuz I told you the first, but the second, and she said she wont be able to until she gets heer phone back. When I talk to her, it sounds as if she really doesnt care. Her texts are lenghty sometimes, but still…i don’t get it…

[mhmcdade]

this is all very helpful!! lol
okay, so what if the girl is interested, and texts me a lot. do I keep texting bak n forth? or I just show lil interest, then back off a bit to give them space

[mhmcdade]

I will definatly look into your book, an thank you so much. another quick thing, do you think the 3 day rule is really good? after I meet a girl, i txt em the very next day. but wut is weird about me, is that I text a lot especially someone I really like. should there always be a limit on texting? and is calling better?

[mhmcdade]

I like your advice. You are great! Just one more thing if you would like. I’m a nice shy guy, and I don’t have many people to talk to, when she stopped saying much to me last week. I don’t know, I miss her a lot. It was nice having someone to talk to. She is nice, fun, outgoing, mos life of the party. I wish I could see her again soon..buy anyways. The best way to get over this and not feel so depressed is to make more friends and meet more girls right? I want to meet more girls, but I commute to college and when I see a cute girl on the bus or walking to class. I’m just like, I don’t know what to say, because it would be so random. How do you start a random conversation wit a girl that looks busy?

[mhmcdade]

it helps a lot. thank you so much. everytimd I sign on facebook I think of her and miss more and more. i’m just going to deactivate my facebook for a while. school is more important and we are too far apart. I just hope she will think of me at some point

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