[Shadowdusk]

With my break up the main problem was that I was working on myself to move to his country but suddenly my parents come and say youre staying here till you die or at least till we allow you (and where I am there isn’t such thing as the whole you can do anything you want at 18/21 )
And he decided to move here which is impossible because the line of jobs he has doesn’t work with good income here and he has to learn a completely different language. And even if he wants to shift things he should study for four years in a university here – in another language to be able to role some dough in.
That’s how we broke up. We were friends for 3 months , together for a year and we met in real life he came to my place and stayed for like 3weeks I think.

Another reason that I was indeed a little ashamed to mention about online dating is that in real life those great men you mentioned around me are 90% looking ONLY for sex. I updated my Facebook profile to something a little revealing just because I look good in it, like a staplress dress , and here comes the shower of messages. Hey are you single ? Do you date? Same goes at parties I am kind of sick of men who want to jump up several stairs at once. It’s not like I am ever going to kiss, and sleep on the first date.

That’s why I leaned to online relationships and also because it’s easier for someone who has an online job.
But you’re right I should try to focus on my studies at some point I currently have a schedule of studying 6 hours a day I may not be able to start with the 6 At once but I can start to raise the hours.

[Shadowdusk]

Your advice is always straightahead and lovely <3
but the thing is, for stopping such a thing Should I go with a cold shoulder? Or just ignoring ?

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