[TPA321]

Thank you. I definitly hear what you are saying. There are lots of issues here. We own the house together and have lived there a year and a half now. My kids are doing great in school and have adjusted beautfully to the divorce. It the beginning it was very difficult and I’ve had them in counseling for 2 years. Walt & I do have a civil relationship with their father. The kids see their Dad twice a week and every other weekend.
My income is the only income currenly… but we opened a new business 6 months ago. New business rarely turn a profit 1st year. Walt runs the company and currently works there 7 days a week. With his past financial trouble I did not want to take on any loans for the opening.
Walt has not gambled for over a year and knows I will not tolerate it. He is working on the drinking and recently made huge changes to his diet and lost 20lbs.

Walt is a great person inside and is working on his issues. To me these are changes he had to make a massive effort to move forward. I’ve felt before that I should cut my losses and move on but I honestly love him dearly. He has always been open and honest with those issues.

His past girlfriends troubles me because I don’t know how to get over it myself. It does not make sense to me why he would look them up like that. Am I his second choice?

[TPA321]

What are you waiting for?? You have nothing to lose but the unknown.”For of all sad words of tongue or pen, the saddest are these: ‘It might have been!'” Harriet Beecher Stowe

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