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When I said nothing wrong, I meant that I never cheated or was physically harmful. She has been cheated on though, and she’s been pushed/threatened, and one of my goals was to give her a better relationship and make her happy and be there for her during dark times.

When we were together, we got along perfectly. Sadly, though, I was being clingy and not aware at the time (I am now) Then one afternoon, at a party, I was being mopey, and we had an argument on the way home. She started talking about her bad experience with relationships in the past and started talking about the chance of us splitting (and she was crying about it too). When I was clingy, I just didn’t want to leave her hanging, but I realize that I just wouldn’t shut up about the relationship when we had it.

Couldn’t the clinginess, moping, and lack of self-confidence be tied to the chemistry? That is such an easy fix on myself now that I’m aware. She did once have a crush on me.

I ended up mailing the letter, and I recently added that I’m sorry she had to see me in such a way that wasn’t myself and before “feel free to call me” I ended up adding “I’m not sure if it’s a good time though, you have your priorities.”

I think she might be confused right now. She’s actually going through a stressful time because of a family-related financial crisis and she must be emotionally scarred from relationships since the one prior to me and her was apparently full of fighting, arguing, blah blah blah. I think if I had done things better, things could have turned out better and we both could have been making each other happy for a longer time.

also, just so you know, I had already mailed that letter before you replied, and I’ve completely stayed out of her life for 12 days

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