Sometimes a bad thing can be a gift in disguise. Consider yourself a kid at Christmas, because you just got a huge gift in finding out about your fiance’s true character before you married him.
Your fiance is not mature enough to be married, and you deserve a LOT better than someone who’s texting and calling girls off and on during your entire 5 year relationship and engagement. You should call off the wedding and say goodbye to him forever. You can do A LOT BETTER.
His behavior alone is a giant deal breaker. But that he’s getting married, is unemployed and isn’t using every waking moment to look for and obtain employment tells me you need to raise the bar on your standards! This is not what love looks like, and it’s not what a healthy relationship looks like. Sorry. 😕
Your feelings of love need to be re-examined. You can love lots of people, things, pets, causes and men — but it doesn’t mean that any of them deserve your hand in marriage let alone your time on a date. You need to start valuing yourself so that you understand what you have to offer a man, and what you expect and deserve in return. (Get my book, Think & Date Like A Man [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], and read it!) Until you do that, you’re going to continue to settle for unemployed guys who cheat on you. 👿
You dodged a bullet by finding out about this cheating. Anything he says in response is silly. Move on. Mr. Right is out there for you. 🙂
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