Mina and I have been in a relationship for a long time now, it’s about 4 years and we’re currently living together in the apartment I’m renting. We both have jobs and I know we’re both tired whenever we come home. Sometimes when we argue, she tells me that she needs emotional availability from me because she doesn’t feel loved or important to me. I’m just busy with work and the reason I work so hard is also for our future together. If we ever have children, I want to make sure I already have savings for them. I don’t really understand what she means whenever she brings that up. So now my question is, what does emotional availability mean in a relationship?