[Dave Sebastian]

I met Sandra on a dating app that I joined. She messaged me first, and we started exchanging information 2 months ago. She’s beautiful and has a gentle-looking face in her profile picture, so I became interested in getting to know her more. We chatted almost every day, and sometimes she would call me too. But last week, she suddenly started calling less often, and even her texts became rare. Sometimes she doesn’t reply to my messages, and when I call her, she doesn’t answer. She only texts whenever she feels like it. I’m thinking maybe she’s just busy with work, so she no longer has much time to text me. Right now, I want to ask for advice:
Is she losing interest, and how can I tell early?

[Quenie]

It’s possible she’s just busy, but it could also be that she’s starting to lose interest in you. Honestly, with dating apps, that’s pretty normal—people usually talk to multiple matches at the same time, so it’s not impossible for her to suddenly lose interest.

[Ricky]

In dating apps, especially when you haven’t even met yet and there’s no real commitment, you shouldn’t really expect too much. With how many people are on dating apps, I’m sure you’re not the only one they’re talking to. So it’s not unlikely at all that they might lose interest in you.
What you can do is also talk to other people so you have more options. Don’t expect too much right away so you don’t end up disappointed.

[Tyrone]

Why don’t you just ask her directly why she suddenly changed? You used to talk all the time and be very active, but now things are different. That way, you’ll know the real reason—whether she’s just busy or if she’s really losing interest in you.

[Mitzh]

If you want an honest answer, ask her directly—no beating around the bush—so you can know the truth and not waste your time if she’s really not interested in you anymore.

[Lady Rose]

Maybe right now she just wants someone to talk to, and she’s not ready to meet in person yet. She might also have other priorities at the moment, which is why she doesn’t have time for a meetup. There could be many possible reasons, but the best thing is still to talk to her personally so you can find out the real reason.

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