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I think she likes me but she has a boyfriend, HELP!!!!

April Masini › Relationship Advice Forum › Relationship Advice Forum › I think she likes me but she has a boyfriend, HELP!!!!

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  • August 7, 2010 at 12:55 pm #2716
    freeletme
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    A few weeks ago me and a few friends went out clubbing. One of these friends was a girl i used to work with who i have feelings for. She kind of knows that i like her because im not exactly being subtle in what i say to her, anyway.
    Before we went out i sent her a flirty text saying “i hope you dress nice for me tonight”.
    During the night i was seperated from this girl because i wanted to go to a different club. I then began getting alot of texts and phone calls from her asking where i was and that she wanted to talk to me about something. I met up with her again that night. She was after my attention alot that night. At one point i went outside and couldn’t get back in because of the clubs policy. She text me asking where i was again, i said i was outside and couldn’t get back in. She then said tell them that your girlfriend is inside, i text back tell them that your boyfriend cant get back in. A few minutes later she was at the entrance telling the bouncers that i was her boyfriend.
    At the end of the night she wouldn’t let me go and get food with my mates and grabbed me to stop me from going. She put her arms around me and said do i feel uncomfortable and did she dress nice for me. I waited for my mates to come back from the takeaway and we got taxis home. I then got a phone call from this girl asking me what i meant by the text “i hope you dress nice for me tonight”. I said that you know what im like and just left it at that. Then a few seconds later i get a text from her asking if i care for her. I didn’t reply.

    I asked her the next time i saw her why she sent that text and she said that she didn’t think that she should tell me but later on asked if i wanted to know. She didn’t tell me that day. So i asked her again another day and she said she was curious but dont answer. She does have a boyfriend and she had had a few drinks that night but the amount of things that were said that night and after lead me to believe that maybe she does have some feelings for me but im not sure. I don’t know what to do. Help please.

    August 9, 2010 at 10:49 am #15149
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    She DEFINITELY likes you! I guess the reason you wrote that you weren’t sure if she liked you or not is because she has a boyfriend. But having a boyfriend doesn’t mean she isn’t interested in you, too. In fact, she’s very interested in you. Life isn’t always black and white, and in this case, there are shades of gray.

    I hope that helps clear things up for you. And I also hope you’ll join me on Facebook. Here’s the link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=110265355684755&ref=mf[/url]! 🙂

    August 10, 2010 at 8:55 am #15204
    freeletme
    Participant

    Thanks for the reply, but what do i do now?. Do i talk to her about this or sit back and wait to see what happens?

    August 10, 2010 at 4:14 pm #15226
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Neither! You go for it! Read Date Out of Your League, a book I’ve written for men who want to get the girl. Here’s the link for you to buy and download it: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. It’s only $14.95 and a great investment for you — since you want to see more this woman!

    Getting the girl is going to be a competition, and I know you’ve got the goods. Now, show her what she’s missing and chase her until you win her over. She’s given you the clues that she’s up for the chase. So don’t wait and see what happens 😕 and don’t talk about it. Act!

    The book will help you a lot — let me know after you read it what happens.

    And join me on Facebook! I want to see you there! Here’s that link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=110265355684755&ref=mf[/url].

    August 10, 2010 at 5:00 pm #15101
    freeletme
    Participant

    I have asked her out already but she said her boyfriend wouldnt like that. Her boyfriend knows i did this because he’s seen her phone. He has actually text me saying leave her alone. This girl spoke to me about what her boyfriend said to me. She said that he goes over the top sometimes because he is over protective of her. But then she said that she was actually thinking about coming out with me and not telling her boyfriend because of the way he is. It seems like she does like me but also likes her boyfriend but he seems to be overly jealous. Its not just me that he acts like this to.

    August 11, 2010 at 11:57 pm #15212
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Why don’t you turn the tables on her? Why don’t you tell her that you aren’t interested in her unless she’s going to be [i]all yours?[/i] After all, why should YOU settle for being the second guy?

    Again, please read Date Out of Your League that you can get here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url] and learn how to get a woman to want you! 😎 Don’t be the nice guy — because they finish last. 🙁 Be the man she wants more than anyone else and can’t get out of her head.

    You don’t need her boyfriend bothering you, so make it clear that you’ll date her when she’s single.

    Let me know how that works for you, and do read the book. It’ll help you a lot.

    And join me on Facebook! Here’s that link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=110265355684755&ref=mf[/url]. 🙂

    August 12, 2010 at 6:22 am #15076
    freeletme
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    I’m going to speak to some of the girls that know her well and ask what they think. But if she were to leave her boyfriend for me does this mean she could do that to me in the future?.
    Also i dont know what you will make of this, but two weeks ago i sent a flirty text to this girl and her boyfriend saw it and sent a text back saying that nothing is going to happen between me and his girlfriend and to just give up. This caused a massive row between this girl and her boyfriend. She told one of her friends about this and began crying saying that i shouldn’t be sending her texts like that. Her friend told me that maybe she isn’t interested because she got upset. But surely the fact that she gets upset is because she feels strongly about the situation and possbily me.
    Before this happened the girls friend said that i should say that if things were different between her and her boyfriend that i would be interested.

    I guess the only person who knows if they have feelings for me is this girl.

    August 13, 2010 at 11:07 pm #15346
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    You’re not taking my advice! 😕

    First of all, read Date Out of Your League. It will keep you from making mistakes, and get you on the right track. Here’s the link: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. It’s only $14.95 and it downloads immediately. Buy it. Read it this weekend.

    In the meantime, your idea to ask her girlfriends for advice or insight is a really bad idea. You’re going in circles because you don’t have your own game. You’ll get it when you read Date Out of Your League. I’m not just trying to hawk books here — I’m giving you my best advice. Read the book and THEN ask me questions about what’s going on.

    And in the meantime, join me on Facebook. I’d love to see you there at AskApril.com on Facebook at this link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=110265355684755&ref=mf[/url]. 🙂

    August 16, 2010 at 1:48 pm #15295
    freeletme
    Participant

    Yes you’re right about me not knowing my game. I am in two minds of what to do. I sort of want to act but i sort of dont if you understand what i mean. Do you think she is just after attention or does what i wrote indicate more than just attention seeking?. I mean i have backed off a bit and when i saw her after about a week of no contact she said she misses me. Its just that i feel confused by the signals shes been giving me.

    I think eventually i will have to act to see if she really is interested.

    August 18, 2010 at 1:24 am #15351
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    You’ll get a LOT of help — more than I can give you here — by reading Date Out of Your League! Please buy and download the book here: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url]. You really need some game, and this book will tell you exactly how to get it! If you want to win with women, you need a little help. The help is here in this book. It’s only $14.95 (a great investment) and I wouldn’t be harping on it so much if I didn’t really think it would help so much!

    Read it!!

    THEN….let me know how things change. 😉

    Join me on AskApril.com on Facebook at this link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=110265355684755&ref=mf[/url].

    August 28, 2010 at 1:12 pm #15144
    freeletme
    Participant

    April thanks for your advice so far but i am not going to buy your book, sorry. One last thing. I know you say act rather than speak to this girl but would you advice against me telling her how i feel about her?.

    Thanks April.

    August 28, 2010 at 4:47 pm #15220
    ThinkingRight
    Participant

    if i were april i’d stop answering your questions. you want her to spend her time answering your questions for free and you don’t want to buy her book for less than 20 bucks? 🙄

    i think she should answer the questions of those of us (LIKE ME!) who [b][u]have[/u] [/b]bought her book and stop spending so much time on people like you. why don’t you let someone else ask some questions for a change and stop occupying the board? ❗ ❗ ❗

    August 29, 2010 at 11:12 pm #15225
    April Masini
    Keymaster

    Thanks, [b]ThinkingRight[/b]! 😀 When people buy my books it helps support the FREE advice everyone who comes here gets. I think sometimes people forget this is free and that a coach, a counselor or a therapist in real life, costs a LOT of money.

    But the REAL reason I recommended that [b]freeletime[/b] buy Date Out of Your League [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url], is because I genuinely know from the nature of his questions that this book will help him [i]inordinately[/i]! I didn’t write the books to get rich — I wrote them to help people and when I think one of my books will help a reader, I DEFINITELY don’t hold back from suggesting they jump in and read them.

    The other problem that[b] freeletime[/b] has is that he doesn’t want to work at dating and is looking for an easy way out. Dating and relationships work best when they are respected and treated like a business! I know that sounds odd, but there is maintenance, tricks and tips and directions that work and don’t work that apply to dates, relationships — and, well, businesses!

    I hope he’ll realize that Date Out of Your League [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url] is a good enough investment to buy and read — I sure think his love life is that important!! 😆

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