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It’s a delicate situation…

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    saintmaria
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    I’m sure my situation is not that uncommon. I didn’t really check around to see if a question like mine has been asked before. But I’m really lost. I’m a junior year in high school and I’m a girl. I’m in a drama class and there is this boy in my class who is really cute, sweet and funny, He is the most fantastic actor that I have ever worked with and I’ve fallen pretty hard for him. Aside from the fact that we only met a few months ago and we don’t really know each other well, I think he might be gay but I honestly have no idea. Half the people I talk to tell me that he is gay and the other half tell me he’s not. It would be one thing if he just didn’t like me as more than a friend, but how am I supposed to find that out? If I tell him that I like him, and he is gay, then that makes everything so much more awkward. And what if he is gay and he doesn’t admit it to me if I tell him I like him? He doesn’t seem to have much interest in me romantically, but I’m hoping that’s just because he doesn’t know that I like him. I don’t want to miss out on my chance if he’s not gay but I don’t want to make things awkward by just flat-out asking him if he’s gay. But I really like him and I’m tired of all this frustration. How would I go about asking him if he is gay, telling him that I like him or even just strengthening our friendship?

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    April Masini
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    Good question.

    Part of the reason this is a tough one is because sometimes people who are young, like your friend is, are new to dating — and quite frankly, new to sexual feelings. Your friend may not be sure of his own sexuality, himself. You may be picking up on his uncertainty — or your suspicion that he is gay is correct.

    My advice is to invest some time befriending him. You’ve only known him for two months, and if you get to know him a little more, he may open up to you — one way or the other! While I normally don’t recommend friendship for men and women, because you’re both so young and new to dating, AND you’re not sure of his sexual preference, in this specific case, friendship is a good idea until you’re sure. At that point, if he’s straight, you can proceed as if he’s someone you want to flirt with and let him know you’re at attractive young woman who’s interested in dating him. If he’s not straight, you may have a new friend. 😀

    I hope that helps. Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url]http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1154528031[/url].

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