In the office in my department there’s this girl I work with.
[Disclaimer, I am aware of the issues with office romantic, [Disclaimer 2, my workplace does not ban workplace relationships outside obvious problems. Actually its kina common here.
We both know the rules because oddly enough we did a sexual harassment PowerPoint together.
I have a big crush on her now. She is a busy semi high energy person at work and not, she even walks home like it. she only has small handfull of close friends, so you could say socially we are similar.
Because we work in an office, we seldom get time to talk outside of breaks. But I would say we are close co-workers (at work).
Couple weeks ago I started sending her unsolicited texts just to chat and she seems ok with it. I finally asked her out to lunch. She said yes without any fuss. We rescheduled it for a different day, and in the process im getting the impression that she either does this every week or I just got put in her to do list.
Now knowing her (because this is a work lunch out), I can imagine it will be another watercooler chat.
This is complicated cuz im planning on moving In 1-2 years after I completed my degree. Which she doesn’t know.
So I’m torn between letting her go and regretting it every time I go to work.
Or making her not like me. For 2 years.
I don’t think she knows I have feelings for her, She’s just so hard to read because being a really busy person.
Anyways how should I proceed or how pushy should I be about being close friends. Should I make my Intentions clear. Or just keep feeling her out.
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