Dear april,
I don’t know why I am doing this, but I need help, advice or an answer. I don’t like describing myself, but I guess I have to. I’ve been in several relationships, 8 I can remember, everyone either cheated, left me for someone else, or moved. Most of my ex’s, I asked out, 1 asked me out. They all stay in contact I got so tired of being single, I’ve been single for 1 year now, I asked some of them. What’s wrong with me… They may be sparing my feelings, but all said, “It’s nothing with you, I just wanted something different.”
I am not handsome… My honest female friends give me a 6/10.
I am higher I.Q., but low on common sense. I love listening, helping and being a shoulder. I’m an open book, I give massages I cook for dates. I am funny, emotional. I love love… And I’ve been called the right amount of clingy… But i believe any clingy is bad.
I am not a guy guy. No sports. Not good at games. I love the night.
My question is… Am i even worth dating? I have good esteem, Im outgoing and social. But should i just give up, marry my job? Or change small peices of myself… Like less lovey dovey and or more shy…?