Relationship advice

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    Maymay1257
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    Hi I need help and advice on my past relationship. I really want to have another chance and get back together with him. After 4 months of him being in prison he decided to break up with me telling me he needed to focus on himself and that I should focus on myself and my future for right now and he doesn’t want to be in a relationship right now but said we’ll see maybe we can be together in the future again and always said we will see. I think I might of jinxed it because I was so excited of the thought of getting back together I asked about it too much and then he changed his mind and said now there’s no chance. And I wanted to know how I can or what to say to get him to give me that chance again? We were together for like 3 years and when he left me it was out of the blue. We really loved each other. I’m asking what should I do to get him to give us another chance and get him back in our situation?

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    April Masini
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    Nothing ever comes out of the blue…. you may not have noticed that he was wanting out, but this wasn’t an overnight decision on his part. While he was in prison for the last four months, he had a lot of time to think about his life, and it sounds like he did. So now you, too, think back, and try to gain any insight into what might have caused him to want to move on, that will be helpful in deciding how to get him back. In the meantime, the way to get him back is to win him over. You have to be the girlfriend you were when he first started dating you, and the one he’ll want again. So, bring your A game and try not to be needy or desperate — it sounds like he’ll be in touch and use any time together to be someone he wants in his life. 😎 I hope that helps .

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