Nothing ever comes out of the blue…. you may not have noticed that he was wanting out, but this wasn’t an overnight decision on his part. While he was in prison for the last four months, he had a lot of time to think about his life, and it sounds like he did. So now you, too, think back, and try to gain any insight into what might have caused him to want to move on, that will be helpful in deciding how to get him back. In the meantime, the way to get him back is to win him over. You have to be the girlfriend you were when he first started dating you, and the one he’ll want again. So, bring your A game and try not to be needy or desperate — it sounds like he’ll be in touch and use any time together to be someone he wants in his life. 😎 I hope that helps .