I just don’t know if our relationship is worth saving or if we should let each other go. My entire family hates him and thinks he’s manipulating me but I don’t. I currently live with my parents and they’ve both expressed how they feel about him and said that he is not allowed over at the house so we only see each-other on my lunch breaks and I’m not allowed over at his place (he lives with grandma and BF) when his grandmothers BF is home because he “hates people.” When we fight, (we fight a lot less now) we say things that are mean but we don’t mean what we say. We are just saying them to hurt the other person. We are both seeing therapists because we know we are not capable of being in a relationship together at this moment. I want him in my life and he says he wants me in his, but when we fight it makes me think that I’d be better off without him and he’d be better off without me because we say very harsh things to each other. But in the end, we both apologize and talk it out. Is it worth saving?
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