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My bestfriend and boyfriend betrayed me

April Masini Relationship Advice Forum Relationship Advice Forum My bestfriend and boyfriend betrayed me

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    saphiresparks
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    My situation is a bit complicated with someone who I called a best friend and my now ex. I just found out a little over a week ago that she has been sleeping with my boyfriend for who knows how long, and I found this out through his phone with pictures and texts. He is out of my life completely without a doubt now but it’s her betrayal that hurt me the most. To make this even worse, she is engaged with her boyfriend of 6 years and she has me up as one of her brides maids. I have been debating between I should speak with her fiance and tell him, talk to her but how or just not doing anything at all. I’m really hurt and I feel so betrayed, to have lost two people who meant a lot to me is really just something I don’t wish to anyone.

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    April Masini
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    What a mess you are getting yourself out of! Good for you. 🙂 I’m very sorry for your pain — this is a double betrayal by both your friend and your boyfriend. My advice, however, is not to tell her fiance that she was cheating on him. I know it’s easy to want to do that and it seems like it might make you feel better because you’ll have revenge and the truth will come out — but don’t do it. Take the high road. Opt out of her wedding party and her wedding. This is not someone who is your friend or who has good character and it’s going to be a waste of your time to continue to enable her behavior. Just walk away from the mess that you were a victim of. Get your own life back on track and keep the mantra that[i] living well is the best revenge[/i]. Don’t stoop to her level — just walk away with excellent manners and be the class act that you are. 😉

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