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4 dates then cold shoulder

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    kaaba
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    Okay, I met this woman that is out of an abusive relationship(about 6 months). When we met for the first time we really hit it off. I asked her out a couple of times and we had a great time. After the second date I asked her if she was looking for some sort of relationship as I was starting to like her a lot. She said she wasn’t and to let nature take it’s course. Well we went out a couple more times together and on the 4th date we had some sexual fun but did not go all the way. After that she hasn’t really talked to me at all. I had seen her out after that and she had been dancing with some other guy and I had made a nasty comment to her. Wrong I know! Now it’s been about two weeks with out talking to her except for one night I approached her on this and apologized for my comment and also asked her why she isn’t replying back to me via text. She said she had been sick and that is why she did not reply back to any texts. Now two of these dates we took her 2 younger children and her two older children with and we hit it off pretty good. One was for the youngest child’s Birthday Party. I think she is just playing me. What do you all think?

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    I don’t think she’s playing with you. I think that she’s lost interest. After you were nasty to her, and then apologized, you expected her to be back to where things had been prior to that episode. But she didn’t bounce back, and when she made an excuse for not replying to your messages after that, it was her way of extricating herself from the relationship. It may not have been honest, but it was the best she could do. Not everybody is going to be straightforward and upfront when it comes to ending things. Usually it’s because they want to avoid conflict.

    I hope that helps.

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    kaaba
    Member #372,014

    Thanks, your probably right. We still say hi to each other when we see each other and she has tried to make an effort to talk with me. I have just kept very light and informal. Thanks again.

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    You’re very welcome. If you’re interested in reading more about how to get the girl, there’s a book I wrote for men who want to win with women. It’s called [b]Date Out of Your League[/b], and I think you might like it. You can buy it here: [url]https://askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/date-out-of-your-league.html[/url].

    Good luck!

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