My girlfriend of six years has asked me to move out and on with my life without her. She has three kids from a previous relationship and I love the kids as if they were my own. In fact they call me dad and i see them every day since the breakup. I kissed a girl at the bar a month ago and my girlfriend walked in right as it happened. I have never done anything like this before and dont go out drinking hardly ever either. I know I betrayed her and she has every right to hate me. She’s already going out on dates with other men and she swears that she will be happier with out me. She told me maybe someday she will let me back into her life but for now she said she can never trust me again. I don’t know what to do. I dont sleep or eat and I miss my home with her and the kids. How can she move on so fast when she said she loves me but won’t trust me again.

I am working on me. Im going to therapy and AA meatings to try to find my way. I can only hope that its not over. I know I have a lot of work to do but I’m willing to put in the time even if takes the rest of my life. Is there any chance to rebuild the trust. I can’t give up I love her. I know what I did was the worst thing in the world for a relationship and how could i love her if I cheated? but I do and I regret everything I have done to hurt her

We have talked. She says she needs and space and wants to be friendly with each other. Our old relationship is over and all I can do know is hope we can rebuild a new one. I miss and the kids with all my heart. I’m hopping there is a chance but I’m not sure yet. She is still planning on dating and has told me that if I get my self together and scontinue on my path of bettering myself and continue on the path of my carrier, she would like me to call her.