[SwiftyTR]

I’m 17, and in the last year have changed in way more ways than one (lost a ton of weight, improved my style, became way more outgoing). Up until now I’ve never noticed a girl liking me or many signs that a girl liked me.
I started liking a girl about 2-3 months ago, and I can’t really tell if she likes me back. I see her 2-3 times a week at class and other activities. Over the same time period that I started liking her I noticed that she glances or looks at me quite often, this seems to have escalated over the last month. Whenever I look at her she darts her eyes away, makes a silly smile, moves her eyebrows in a flirty(?) way, or winks (only happened twice, but still). I do similar things when she looks at me as well.
She’s also asked me for a ride a few times, and we typically don’t stop talking for the whole ride. Also in class this week she was asking for my help (I don’t think she needed it). I’ve invited her to several group things and she almost always says she is busy and then gives a detailed excuse (I think she may actually be busy).
The part about mine inviting her to several things is probably the most confusing thing about this to me. It seems to me that she acts like she likes me but when I invite her to group things with my friends and occasionally her friends she is always busy or just doesn’t want to (not always but frequently).
I just recently invited (texted her, cuz it wasn’t meant to be as a date) her to a football game Her responce was “K so I want to” “Who all is going? Can we make a group?”
Does it sound like she likes me?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

She does like you! And because you’re both teenagers and not experienced at dating, she’s wanting to make it a group date so she can feel more secure as she gets to know you. I think you’re doing everything right! 🙂

[Swera Khan]

The girl’s repeated refusal to join a group and then her suggestion to form her own group for a football game shows that she is probably nervous.
When you are alone in the ride, it is a different matter, but showing off in front of friends is probably scaring her.
Ask April was absolutely right that the girl likes you because both are teenagers and don’t have much dating experience, so the girl wants a group date so she feels safe and doesn’t feel pressured.

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