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    raerae1989
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    I have feelings for a co-worker. We have always talked and texted each other. About a year ago, he started drunk texting me every weekend. It continued until a few months ago when we actually hung out alone together. We had a few drinks when we hung out and he said he has liked me the whole time and wanted to see what will happen. After he told me, I told him I liked him too. Then things changed and we stopped talking and I wouldn’t even look at him. Well we just started talking this past weekend. He asked if I wanted to finish what we started. I still like the guy but there’s something that’s been bothering me… Well turns out he is my sister’s uncle! He and my sister’s father have the same father, so half brothers.. I didn’t find out until almost a year after I started to like him. My sister’s father has no part in her life and I’m not even sure if he is in his brother’s(the guy I like) life. I can’t help but like him but it feels so wrong. I don’t know what to do. I’m screwed.

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    Do you have a question?

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    raerae1989
    Member #191,549

    I need some advice or something. I don’t know what to do. Continue and see what happens or give it up?

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    I don’t think the fact that he’s your sister uncle is a problem. You and your sister appear to have different fathers, and it really doesn’t appear that he is even in your family circle at all.

    The problem with pursuing or even considering this relationship is that this is a man who [i]drunk[/i] texted you every weekend for a year. That’s a lot of drunk texting with nothing in between. Instead of asking you out for a date or even texting you while sober, he had to be drunk in order to contact you. 😕 This doesn’t really indicate a serious interest — it’s more like Ms. Right Now interest.

    His comment about “finishing what you started” sounds more like he’s interested in sleeping with you, but that’s it. Decide what you want in a relationship, and then think hard about whether he’s Mr. RIght — or not.

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