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One Girl Broke My Heart, Now I See Every Girl as a Traitor

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    Tyler Brooks
    Member #382,754

    Hi, I am Tyler. I am in a very big problem right now, and I hope you will help me solve it.

    I have been in a relationship with a girl for two years. She looks quite religious and is beautiful too. First, we were friends for about five months. After that, I started dating her, and then we became physical. I love her very much, and she makes me feel the same way, as if “she cannot live without me”.

    For a few days, I had to go to another city for work. I stayed in touch with her occasionally while I was there. When I came back after a month, I thought I’d surprise her and propose to her. When I went to her apartment, she was there with another boy. They were both in the same room, and she was wearing a very sexy dress. I was shocked to see this and left in anger.

    She kept messaging me and asking for forgiveness, saying, ‘Please forgive me, I won’t do it again, I was just feeling lonely, so it was just a small mistake.’

    Now, you tell me, is this a ‘small mistake’? She broke my trust and was romancing another guy. She tells me this was her first time doing something like this, but I don’t believe her anymore. I am in a lot of pain, and sometimes, I feel like “all girls will be like this traitors”. because this was my first love.
    Tell me, what should I do now? Ask April, I need your expert advice. Please tell me.

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    Mia Monita
    Member #382,765

    She cheated on you and that wasn’t a small mistake. Cheating is a choice, and she chose to do it while you’re far away. It’s up to you if you’ll forgive her but I guess if you do forgive her, there’s no peace of mind on your entire relationship because Trust is like a mirror, once it has a crack it no longer rebuilt to same appearance as before.

    Not all girl are cheater like your girlfriend.

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    Freya Jhon
    Member #382,757

    Sorry for that, but this girl really should have waited for you. If she gets lonely and goes to someone else after being away for a month, how will she stand up to the hardships of life tomorrow? Relationships are all about waiting for each other and being loyal.
    Once trust is broken, it will never be the same again. You will always doubt her every time she picks up the phone or you go out. And this ruins the peace of life.

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    Hamna
    Member #382,766

    It was really painful. The truth is, when you trust someone blindly, and they break your heart like this, the whole world feels shaken.
    I can understand that this girl did a lot of wrong to you and you are in pain, but this was your first love, not your last. Judging girls all over the world because of one girl’s infidelity will be detrimental to your own future. Good and bad people are everywhere.

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    Lamine
    Member #382,717

    Depends on you and what you consider non-negotiable.

    For me, cheating is a non-negotiable and I will never forgive it.

    Do you feel the same way, or you want to give her another chance?

    The fact that you asked, makes ,me think, you are considering forgiveness. But remember, she will get bored again.

    When you travel for work again, would you be rest assured that she isn’t cheating?

    However, a month is a lot for some people without physical contact.

    If I were you what i would change in my next relationship(Cos I’d definitely end things with the cheat) is ensure i keep contact with my girl a couple of times daily, don’t let her miss your absence, and maybe after 2 weeks you may ask her to come visit you for a couple of days, and 2 weeks later you would be back with her.,

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