Hi, me and my guy have been in a relationship for the past 9 years. Since the past 3-4 months,we’ve been facing difficulties due to our common friends as they’ve been telling him things about me and he’s really hurt. He really wants to get back but is confused and hurt and is giving our relationship a second thought. Please help us get back asap!
if the things that those people are telling him are untrue, tell him that they are false and if he doesn’t believe you thats his problem. If they are true you should own up to them and apologize, telling him how much you care for and value him. tell him you will change, but don’t make promises you don’t plan to keep.
You’re getting some great advice here! 🙂 I think that what’s missing is good communication between the two of you. If you’ve been together for 9 years, you’ve got a big investment in your relationship. It seems a little odd that it’s friends who are driving you apart. I think it’s more likely that the communication between the two of you has broken down and that’s what you should focus on. 😉
