[DreamOn]

My now ex-boyfriend cheated on me and left me for this woman. It took me some time, but I’m not mad at him anymore because he himself was so confused and so stressed out at the time with fear of a new job, unknown future, ect. However, I was in our college choir with this woman and she is known to sleep around and cheat and is a major drug addict. I know my ex deserves so much better, and even though I’m over him, I’m not over the fact that he’s dating a girl that could ruin his life. He deserves happiness and respect and someone so much better than her. I’m not sure what to do to make him see this before he falls in to deep and gets hurt.

[epea98]

I think you should stay out of it. This may not be what you want to hear and I really do not mean to be hurtful but he made his choice and I doubt you can do anything to change his mind. He obviously can’t see that you are the better woman, but I wouldn’t be too quick to judge her for her past because we have all made mistakes. I can’t claim to know the situation as well as you do, but it seems to me that it’s his life to ruin if he chooses to do so.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I have to agree with epea98…. since you’ve broken up with your boyfriend, and he’s now your ex, who he dates is really his business. We all make mistakes — but they’re ours to make, and there is something about her that he likes, so why not give him the opportunity to figure out his own life? I think you have good intentions, but your energy will be better spent focusing on your own life. 😉

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