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    BigLeafy
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    Joined up Hoping someone can Help me out a bit. Im seriously at a loss here, My Girlfriend Broke up with me a few days Ago. I’ve been Hurting pretty badly. i got the whole “We need to talk” line and i knew what was to follow, i accepted it and listened to what she had to say. She said that she still loves me but needs to put her life back together. then she said once that happens she wants to be with me. Then i got the whole the way i have been is unfair to you speech. I was in shock i asked her flat out if she was lying and she said no. Then what she said completely screwed me around. She said her heart wasn’t in it anymore since we never seen each other and that shes stopped missing me and we arent working out “At least right now”.

    its almost as if what she told me contradicted what she said earlier. I asked her flat out if shes Lying to me she said No. I Want to believe her but i have a hard time with it…i love this Girl, ive known her for 15 years and shes always been very close to me, We finally decided to try dating and it failed….Then about a year and a half later we tried again…and now im where i am now. Ive talked to her a bit over the past few days..nothing serious, just casual talk, long story short i guess im just wondering on how i should approach the situation, any other advice would be nice as well, if i missed any details that Anyone needs just let me know, Im looking for the most accurate answer you feel you can give. Thankyou for any help!

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    If this is your second try at dating her, and it failed, my advice is to move on. I’m not sure what the first break up was about, or why you got back together again, but the second, most recent break up seems to be about her not really wanting to date you any more, whether or not she’s being honest with you about the reason, or if she even knows, herself. Bottom line is her behavior: She’s not interested in dating any more. 😳 Next!

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