[Jazlene1993]

So I met this guy last year. We had plenty of mutual friends. Seen him around, never really talked. After a party, a mutual friend drove us home. We lived in the same apartment complex. We got out the car and were about to part ways and he kissed me. At first I was hesitant because I knew he had a girlfriend… But since we both had drinks in our system I was like f**k it. We made out, and he asked me to put my number in his phone. After that we spoke here and there,… And he came clear one time to me
And was like I want to have Sex with you. I tried to block him out because I knew he had a gf so I didn’t want to put myself in that position. He would constantly text me. Late Nights. See each other at our friends house. Then, I gave in. Went to his house for the first time while his girl was working and we performed oral. After that it was late night car meets, sneaking around. The whole 9. After we had sex a couple times, he just doesn’t seem to text me as much as he did before we had sex. I feel stupid and used because I know he got exactly what he wanted. I feel sad, used, disgusted. What should I do? I always reply to his messages when he hits me up and I know I shouldn’t ! …

[April Masini, your AskApril]

This is really all in your control. If you want to be a girlfriend, then you have to act like one. If you want to be a booty call, then you can act like one. He’s clear, you’re not. You have to do what you want to get what you want. If you want to stop seeing him then do so. If you don’t, then don’t. There’s no magic trick here. It’s all very simple. But you have to do the work. 😉

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