[sportsguyaa]

So to make this not as complicated as it was, My girlfriend who stays in a dorm is friends with a few guys on their floor. One of the guys is really really into her and she knows that. He constantly text her and snap chats her. For some reason she still befriends him and hangs out with him and his friends. Just found out that one night after hanging out he approached her kissed her and told her he’s been waiting to do that for a long time. She didn’t decide to tell me at first until I found I very long text that he had sent her. I want to beat this kids ass very badly. I explained to her that she is to never talk to this kid again or I will there will be problems. She says she just wants to act like it never happened and that she will still be hanging out with him only with a group of others of course but the point is still there. How should I feel about this?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I’m sure you feel concerned that this guy is going to win her over, but I think that rather than addressing him, you should just make sure [i]you[/i] win her over, so she isn’t interested in dating anyone else. 😎 There is always going to be competition, and you can’t go around beating up any guy who likes her. But you can be the boyfriend she doesn’t want to lose, so she wouldn’t jeopardize the relationship. That’s a much stronger position for you to be in. 😉

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