[Deriaz1911]

Dear mam,
I like this girl and she knows it too. But since, last few days, she has been ignoring me and replying me with abrupt messages. There is this another guy, who likes her too and would talk her on the phone and would say negative things about me, like brainwashing. I feel that she is attracted towards him more now. I care so much about and love her and wish she would do the same for me.

[AskApril Masini]

First, understand that not everyone you like is going to like you back. That’s just life. And sometimes someone will like you — and you won’t care for them. Try not to take the rejection too personally. And use it to walk away from opportunities that do not exist, and find those that do. 😉 But if you want to give it another try…. figure out what it is about this guy that she likes. And compete for her attention! 🙂 Bring out your own strengths — and develop new ones. Compliment her, flirt with her, make her laugh and do nice things for her — and invite her on dates. Life is competitive, so get in the game! All you have to risk is rejection and you’re already there, so give it a shot before calling it quits. 🙂

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