[Deriaz1911]

Dear mam,
I like this girl and she knows it too. But since, last few days, she has been ignoring me and replying me with abrupt messages. There is this another guy, who likes her too and would talk her on the phone and would say negative things about me, like brainwashing. I feel that she is attracted towards him more now. I care so much about and love her and wish she would do the same for me.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

First, understand that not everyone you like is going to like you back. That’s just life. And sometimes someone will like you — and you won’t care for them. Try not to take the rejection too personally. And use it to walk away from opportunities that do not exist, and find those that do. 😉 But if you want to give it another try…. figure out what it is about this guy that she likes. And compete for her attention! 🙂 Bring out your own strengths — and develop new ones. Compliment her, flirt with her, make her laugh and do nice things for her — and invite her on dates. Life is competitive, so get in the game! All you have to risk is rejection and you’re already there, so give it a shot before calling it quits. 🙂

[Rayan lee]

Listen, you’re caring for her too much while she’s just ignoring you. It means you are far too “available.” When you’re always saying “Yes” and constantly listening to her old whining and drama, your status in her eyes becomes nothing more than “emotional support,” not a boyfriend.
Stop sending her those boring “Good Morning” texts. Tease her a little, flirt with her. She needs to feel like you aren’t just a “backup option” but that you are a prize in yourself. Someone who isn’t so easy to get.
And AskApril gave expert advice, saying that if you truly want to win her over, you need to “get in the game.” Figure out what it is about that other guy that the girl actually likes.

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