[Anonymous]

It’s difficult to specifically state why one individual behaves the way they do without knowing them, but what in general usually makes a guy treat one particular girl completely different than other girls he knows? Is this what happens when something is repressed that a guy is feeling in order to treat a girl as if she’s non-existent, cold, say spiteful things, but not to any other girl? I feel that there is strong tension between the two of us or maybe it is just me, but something isn’t right in order for me to be treated this way. I’ve tried several times to extend my hand and let go of the grudges and be friends at the least again and he just won’t put down his sword. I’m gonna have to throw in the towel, but I’m all mixed up because there’s obviously something I missed or I’m missing. We’ve argued and said hurtful things, insults and cheap shots back and forth at each and I may have said some things that possibly hit home and struck a nerve without me knowing. I’ve apologized more than enough for my wrong in the matter and he still gives me the silent treatment or ignores me altogether or if he does say something to me, it’s something spiteful like calling me a clown and not in a good way. I’m not understanding his reasons because he won’t tell me.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Is this a guy you’ve dated? Been in a relationship with? Have never dated?

Give me some context as well as your ages, and I’ll give you my advice!

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[Anonymous]

We are both 20 years old and we didn’t necessarily date, it was more like a casual thing, but in the process feelings were developed. I know there was an initial strong attraction, but I have no clue what created the downward spiral.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If he’s never asked you out on a date then you’re just friends. But if he’s treating you poorly and you’re apologizing for what you think you’re doing, and he’s giving you the silent treatment, it’s time for you to take the hint and move on. There is no reason to stay in someone’s life when they don’t want you there.

Don’t waste any more time with this guy. You’re 20 years old and there is a whole world full of men who want to treat you like a good friend or a great girlfriend. Find one of them instead.

I hope that helps.

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