[Anonymous]

Hi, 🙂

I have this major poblem, I’ve been with my bf for 3 years now, so nx year, we plan to go to my sister’s wedding BUT he planned to meet his father too whom he had not meet in years AFTER my sister’s wedding, the father suggested to bring his eldest sister along, at first I was cool with it, we decide to go a few days earlier but plan changed when his sister says that when me & my bf is at the wedding for a couple of days, she’ll be alone with her dad, well i guess it’s a bit awkward considering she haven’t met her that for a few years too, so my bf told me bout’ her sis’s problem, well in the back of my mind, I was thinking not to bring her at all, but i don’t wanna hurt her feelings so I just told my bf you should go & accompany your sister then I’ll go to the wedding alone unwillingly!!! Deep down I was really sad that he would ditch me 😥 Now everytime I feel as though I don’t wanna see his sister when she comes to visit, I have to admit she is way hotter than me but one thing i know that everyone who look at her is that she is all plastic, she had surgery on her eyes to make it bigger, & ejection for her nose to look higher.. Sometimes I hate it when my bf compares me to her & even other people say we look alike!!!! I really hate it!!!! 👿
WHAT SHOULD I DO?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You have a self esteem problem. Your boyfriend is not going to choose his sister over you! 😯 Your boyfriend loves you, but you start forgetting that and start thinking about how you stack up against his sister. 😕 There will always be women who are more beautiful than you and there will always be women who are not nearly as beautiful as you. What you have to do is to stop thinking about your appearance, and start thinking about relationships.

I hope that helps — and that you’ll let me know how the wedding goes. Follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

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