[reet]

Hey April,
Day before, i got a chance to talk to him and i grabbed it. He came home alone and whn he saw me walking, he looked at me and i smiled… Den hecrossed me thrice and was continuously smiling. I reached out and i dont knw wht happened dat he was scared… And said “no no i wasnt doing anything wrong and dont get me wrong”… Den whn i started talking he calmed himself and asked me where do i live here and i asked his name and he asked mine… Den he left saying “ok bye… Tk cr”

It was a normal talk for abt 2 min and no flirting… Today whn he saw me, he started his car and left… Dat was so weird… I still remember i didnt said anything bad dat day.. Y is he reacting like dis…? Will he come bck to talk to me again…? What do u think and suggest me…?

[Ask April Masini]

[quote] Y is he reacting like dis…? Will he come bck to talk to me again…? What do u think and suggest me…?[/quote]

He’s not interested. Next! 😉

[reet]

Ohh… He said hello yesterday night whn i was walking… And talked to me too… And he sounded really happy…

I think he was afraid at first but now he is opening up slowly… 😀

[Ask April Masini]

🙂

[Ethan Morales]

you’ve been through way too much for someone who isn’t treating you right. 😡

He’s shown you who he is. Over and over. Blocking, canceling plans, insulting, disappearing that isn’t just bad luck or stress. That’s a pattern. He’s sending a loud, clear message: he doesn’t value your time, effort, or feelings.

You’ve been patient beyond reason. Forgiving him for months, giving him chances after he’s hurt you, and bending over backward for him is not love, it’s enabling. You’ve been carrying this relationship alone while he keeps treating you like you’re disposable.

The promises mean nothing. Every apology he gives is followed by the same behavior. If someone truly cared, they’d change their actions first, not just their words.

Your feelings are valid. Frustration, hurt, disappointment these are natural. You’re not overreacting; you’re reacting to someone repeatedly disrespecting you.

Leaving is the healthiest choice. Walking away doesn’t make you weak it shows you value yourself. You deserve someone who shows up consistently, respects you, and treats you like a priority, not someone who cycles between neglect and “sorry.”

Focus on yourself now. Heal, set boundaries, and surround yourself with people who lift you up. The right person won’t make you question your worth every single day.

Bottom line: he’s done. The sooner you fully detach, the sooner you reclaim your life and peace of mind. You can do this.

[Maria]

Reet, this man doesn’t love you, he controls you. He’s been showing you that for years. Every time he blocks you, insults you, or disappears when you need him most, he’s teaching you what kind of love he’s capable of, and it’s not the kind that nurtures or respects. You keep forgiving him because you hope his words mean more than his actions, but they don’t. When someone can watch you cry, hurt you, and still sleep fine at night, you’re not in a relationship, you’re in a cycle of abuse.

You don’t need to show him your silence; you need to show yourself mercy. Stop waiting for apologies that will never change him. The moment you cut him off completely, no messages, no calls, no checking on his car, you’ll start to remember what peace feels like. You deserve a man who stands beside you, not one who makes you beg for crumbs of kindness.

[PassionSeeker]

This exchange captures something powerful it shows how people can get trapped in hope long after love has turned into pain. April’s responses were blunt for a reason: she was trying to cut through the cycle of emotional dependency and help “Reet” see the truth that staying with someone who continually disrespects, manipulates, and blames you isn’t love; it’s self-abandonment.

Your story (and hers) shows what happens when someone confuses persistence with loyalty. You can forgive someone endlessly, but if they don’t value your forgiveness, it becomes permission for more mistreatment. The silence you hoped would “teach him a lesson” was really a chance to teach yourself self-respect and that lesson still stands.

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