Hey, my name is Josh, I’m 31, and I’ve been thinking a lot about my past relationships lately. I had a couple of serious ones over the years and for different reasons, they all ended.
A frequent problem is that even a simple conversation ends up turning into arguments over very small things. That’s why now I’ve learned how to handle those situations better. I’ve become more patient and more understanding.
I don’t wanna keep making the same mistakes, especially if I’m part of why things didn’t work out. But at the same time, I know relationships have two people, so it’s hard to tell what’s really on me vs what just wasn’t the right fit.
I guess I’m trying to understand, why do relationships usually fail? And how do you look at your past honestly without being too hard on yourself but still actually learn from it?
Thanks.