[chrisa1990]

I have been dating my bf for 2yrs and 5 months. All the time he always mentions his sisters cooking. dont get me wrong it’s ok but not all the time. When i cook for him, i feel as if he does not appreciate what i do for him. Sometimes i feel like saying go to yr sister cos this kitchen is closed. We both come from different backgrounds. I try soo hard to cook his type of food. He does not notice what i do. But when his sister cooks for him he does notice. It never used to bother me but now it does. I feel as if his obsessed about his sister hes always talking about her and doing for her. But when it comes to me he cant be bothered. I’m comparing his sisters relationhip to mine. He does not want to get married but he then says when the time is right. He says that iam forcing him but i dont force anyone that does not want to do something that i dont want. We both in our early 20s. i feel as if my needs are not being meet. Any advice 😐

[Ask April Masini]

It sounds like this problem has nothing to do with cooking at all! 😮 You want to get married, and your boyfriend isn’t ready, so you’re looking for reasons and you’ve focused on his sister. You say that he’s always doing things for your sister, but not for you and that he’s appreciative of her and her cooking, but not of you and yours. The reality is that it’s time for you to cut bait and find a man who does want you in the same way you want him so that you don’t have to look for excuses, like his sister or his mother or his best friend, to explain his lack of commitment to you.

Get Think & Date Like A Man, [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you can understand how to find and get Mr. Right. For you, Mr. Right is someone who will propose marriage, but you’ve chosen a man who isn’t that for you. 😳 This isn’t about his sister. It’s about your choice in men.

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[chrisa1990]

Well i broke it off with him. In a way i feel happy but still a bit sad. I’m finding it hard to get over him.

[Ask April Masini]

Break ups hurt, and I’m sorry you’re in pain. Focus on yourself and use your energy to start new, productive projects that will refocus your energy on positive endeavors and away from the hurt you feel from the break up.

I hope you’ll get Think & Date Like A Man, that I suggested for you in my last post. You can read it now that and see where you went wrong in this last relationship and what you can do differently next time. Download it at this link: [url]http://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

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