[clair444]

Ive been wit my boyfreind 4 2 yrs now. We constantly argue all the time. Recently i broke up wit him at the spur of the moment, which i later on regretted. He starts saying that i’m not decent anymore and that i used to be decent. Which hurt my feelings a little bit. The last name calling was you acting just like a hoe, which was disrespectful. I really love him soo much, i feel as if i’m chasing him. Everytime i ask him, if he wants to meet up he says i dont know this has been going on for three weeks. So i spoke to him about the meeting up thang and his immedate reaction was “you want me to be with you 24 7” which is not true and he then says “i have spent the last three weeks with you”. He says he loves me, and does want me to go but on the other hand he does really make an effort, only sometimes. I have been playing it cool, and i dont know what else i can do. I do not want to keep arguing with him all the time, i just want to have a good relationship with him thats all. ❗

[April Masini, your AskApril]

He doesn’t want to be with you, and you continue to chase him because he SAYS he doesn’t want you to go. 😳 Well, he sure doesn’t act like he doesn’t want you to go. In fact, if you judge his behavior you — and anyone — can see he’s not interested in you, and after two years of dating, it’s time for you to find a boyfriend who actually [i]wants[/i] you! Stop listening to his false promises and pay attention to his vital actions. He’s dumping you and you’re not seeing it because you don’t want to.

It’s time for you to stop wasting your time, move on and find Mr. Right, because this boyfriend is definitely the wrong guy for you. 😕

[clair444]

U totally right, I have waited for a month for see if his behaviour is gona change but still no improvement. Its just hard. I mean he always puts his family first then me. My patenice with him is running out. I dont know whether to confront him now or wait until the end of may. I dont know if telling his sister will help.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Don’t wait. Stop making drama. Break up today. Stop wasting your time and his. If you don’t break your own cycle, no one else will.

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