[kyleesmiley321]

Last year, my current boyfriend was involved with a girl for 3 months that had a boyfriend, and they fell in love. We live in Pennsylvania, and she moved to Colorado to be with her boyfriend. He was under the impression that he would never see her again, and he said it bothered him a little but he was fine because he loves me. Well, she came back to visit friends last week. He admitted that he still loves her, but he doesn’t want to be with her. It was his first love, so I do understand that. The only thing that is keeping me sane is my best friend. She is still in love with this guy she used to date (first love) but I know she does not want to be with him at all.. He is trying really hard to get over her but it’s just hard on both of us with her here.. I know he misses her and they still talk a few times a week, but he is really trying to get over her. Should I break up with him because of this? It isn’t really something he can help. i understand that love lasts forever, so wouldn’t everyone be having this problem? if everyone still loved their exes?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

How old are you both?

How long have you been dating your boyfriend?

[kyleesmiley321]

H! I am 19 and he’s 21. he was seeing this girl for 3 months, 3 months ago, and I have been seeing him for almost 4

[April Masini, your AskApril]

If you really feel that he’s not that into you because he’s still in love with someone else, and the ghost of that someone else is keeping him from being a good boyfriend, then after four months of dating, yes, it’s time to move on. You want to find someone who’s ready to be your boyfriend. If someone’s still holding a torch for another woman….he’s not ready. 😉

I hope that helps.

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