[chestnut]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. He introduced me to his family and friends and is talking marriage. His ex is still living in the home they shared which he owns and he still has personal effects there and goes there a a regular basis. I told him I am not comfortable with the situation but he states that he feels guilty making her leave since he took her from her family home to come live with him and does not feel right putting her out. I asked him what would have happen if he did not own another property would the two have continued to co-habit in the same house. His answer was no. How do I handle this situation?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’ve expressed your feelings about the situation and he’s told you he’s not going to put her out because his feelings of guilt about her come before yours about him. 😕 This isn’t a good situation for you. Any man who wants to marry you would surely want to honor your feelings — especially about something as reasonable as this. As you tell it, he’s basically still sharing a house with her while dating you. It may be time for you to reconsider what you’re getting into with him.

Please get more AskApril on Facebook at this link: [url][/url] and follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter.

[Member]

Posts