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Boyfriend’s remarks

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    sparkle
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    Last night I was at my boyfriend’s house watching tv with him. He came across a movie with one of his favorite female stars in it. He began making comments like “wow! she’s so hot!!” and a few others. I took offense and told him I think it’s tacky for him to make such remarks when I’m sitting right next to him.
    Am I right, or just being too sensitive? Sparkle

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    You’re both right! Therefore…. my advice is not to make a big deal out of something that really isn’t affecting your relationship. Instead, summon up your sense of humor. 😉 If he thinks a movie star is hot — but he treats you very well — then put things in perspective for yourself. Next time you see his celebrity crush, tell him his girlfriend is on TV again, and give him a teasing laugh. If you can be in on the joke, then this other women isn’t going to be a real threat. 🙂

    Pick your battles, and remember that guys are visual and just because he finds someone attractive doesn’t mean he’s not going to be a stellar boyfriend. Take a breath and exhale your new mantra: Perspective. Ommmmmmmm.

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