Your instincts are correct. You don’t want to date a guy who smokes weed, and you’ve been clear about this with your boyfriend, but he isn’t changing his ways. At least not yet. Yes, he has some pressures with his parents divorce, and yes, drugs and alcohol anesthetize his feelings so he doesn’t have to deal with them — which makes his life easier (not better, but easier for the moment). So you understand why he’s behaving this way, but the bottom line is that this isn’t right for you. My advice is to break up with him because of this. If he wants to show you that he’s changed, then he can, but the best thing you can do for yourself, and for him, is to be clear — not just with your language, but with your behavior. He’s got a lot of confusion going on with his parent’s divorce and if you are clear with him, then that’s a gift, whether you’re together or not. Don’t count on it, but your breaking up with him for this reason may just be the kick in the pants he needs to change. 😉
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