[thuglife5]

Hi guys!Im in need of your help.Thank you people in advance.So it all started last year around the same time in my University were i met this Senior guy!After few months of being around in his workplace i figured that i love him,He’s barely ever spoken to me but he gave me a bright smile whenever im around.Months went by,We became friends on a social networking site.Never texted him even once and one day received a text saying I want you in my life as my sister and he has seen me that way ever since the first day.I really couldnt say how i felt about him as he saw me as his sister and i could do nothing but just accept it.i thought ill be okay but My feelings for him never really changed and it still hasnt.I couldnt control myself one day and i even told him that i liked him previously he replied Lets be friends (a twist) i dint know what to do as i was in shock so i just said be my brother forever(I know im stupid).My feelings hasnt changed.I REALLY FEEL BAD.I know i made a mistake.Not a single day has crossed by without me crying thinking about it.i really dont think so i can love anyone as much as i love him.I dont really know what to do in life!so i coulnt help it.So thought ill ask you guys for suggestions.Please help me out of this situation.Thank you so much everyone for patiently reading this and writing me back.Thank you

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It’s really rough when a guy isn’t into you, and you want him to be. But if he says that he sees you as a sister or a friend, my advice is that you stop acting like one. 😎 Dial up the flirtation. Be the girlfriend you want to be. Make him see you as more than a sister by acting flirty and sexy. 😉 And…. don’t spend all your energy on someone who says you’re like a sister to him. If he sees you with other guys, who don’t see you as a sister, he may change the way he looks at you.

I hope that helps.

[thuglife5]

Thank you so much! Its so nice of you to give me a positive reply. 😀

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re very welcome. Let me know if you have any questions in the future. 😀

[thuglife5]

🙂 sure

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Have a great weekend. 🙂

[thuglife5]

Hello,I need your help! 🙂 Im still in love with this guy,But previously he called me his sister and now he added that Im his good friend and sometimes he says that he loves me(i havent figured it out which way he means that,either as his sister or….? but i at times feel like he says it in a different way) and the other time he calls me his sister.So confused.I even told him that i loved him so much and he knows it as well.He replies like he’s confused but still makes sure that he reinforces that he’s my brother after every romantical sayings of his!Will i be able to overcome him? but i want him in my life as my everything.He knows that i loved him in another way and still manages to call me his sister!Do i have a chance with him?what should i do further?So i need your help.sorry for such a boring long story and for the trouble. 🙁 your that one persons advice Im looking forward to.Thank you so much in advance 😀

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Did you take the advice I gave you last month?

[quote]Dial up the flirtation. Be the girlfriend you want to be. Make him see you as more than a sister by acting flirty and sexy. 😉 And…. don’t spend all your energy on someone who says you’re like a sister to him. If he sees you with other guys, who don’t see you as a sister, he may change the way he looks at you. [/quote]

It’s good advice. 🙂

[thuglife5]

Ill take that advice 😀 😎 Thanks

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re very welcome! 😀

[Sally]

First, you didn’t do anything wrong. You didn’t trick him. You didn’t cross a line on purpose. You caught feelings, and that happens. Him seeing you as a sister doesn’t mean you’re unlovable or that your feelings were silly. It just means he didn’t feel the same way.

What’s hurting you now isn’t just him. It’s that you’re holding on to a version of him that lives in your head. That kind of love feels intense because it never gets tested by real life.

Calling him your brother was you trying to survive the moment, not stupidity. But staying close to him while you feel this way is keeping the wound open.
You don’t need to erase your feelings overnight. Just give yourself space. Distance isn’t punishment it’s mercy. One day, this won’t hurt like this. I promise.

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