Your history of anxiety around transition is causing you to look for something or someone you think is “safe” and he’s not that that safety net, even though you may think he is. You are your own safety net because you’ve weathered lots of change with discomfort, but success.
You’re feeling lonely and you want a relationship, so your mind is scanning for anyone who’s a possibility. The problem is, this guy is a distant possibility. While there is always a chance that someone from high school you haven’t kept in touch with, but harbored a crush for, may be available and interested, the odds are slim, and while it’s fine to get in touch with him in a flirtatious and friendly way, it isn’t a good idea to bet your future college choice and next home base on him. So, don’t choose a college just because your crush goes to school nearby. Instead, focus on your future goals — whether they’re educational, career, or relationship, and then be realistic. Pick the best school and city for your goals, and start focusing on having a relationship with someone who is Mr. Right — not necessarily, someone you crushed on a long time ago who hasn’t been in your life since then. He can be one of the people you’re interested in, but don’t put all your eggs in that basket. 😉 .
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