[Anonymous]

hey again so im back lol anyway i was letting things play out when one day my phone quit working and i had no idea what was planned one day so i told my girl i was going to play ball then go home over facebook when after ball my buddy decided he wanted to stay the night so i let him so i called her from his phone told her and she blew up sayn she had planned us watching a movie and hanging out so when she knew that wasnt going to happen she blew up more about being with my friends all time which im not and she was done and she wasnt ready for the work this involved and she didnt want relationship so itried for like 3hours to talk to her but she kept to her same story i even took my buddy home at like 1030pm and went back to her house to watch movie anyway.. even after all that she was still done so the next day friday i barely talked to her of course phone is off still.

ok well i planned a get together at my house saturday night i didnt invite her thinking were done still right so she calls because i guess she heard and she blew up knowing somegirls would be there and some she dont like sayn if i really tried or liked her i wouldnt have them over and that i would have invited her and stuff i thought we were done ya know.. any long story short she ends up over my house late saturday ive been drinking idk where she came from she comes over see all these ppl over and these girls were all good time she wanted to leave me drinking wouldnt let her so she hit me clawed me punched me kicked me i still wouldnt move eventually my dad came home and made me move to let her go.. even after all that she talked to me on phone sayn she loves me and misses me and we need to have serious talk about us and stuff then few days later she hates me cant trust me dont want to make decesion yet and that i need to lay off. my whole thing is like i told her last night i cant ever please her or do right by her she is going out saturday and i want to have fun too but if i have party with girls over then she will end up mad again but then if i dont and i just sit around doing nothing all weekend while she is out she still wont want to be with me its just i cant do anything but cant have her too.. basically i told her last night i cant please her but i dont want to make her more mad or do her wrong and i also cant have her but i cant let her go idk what to do idk should i wait around or do me and say who cares what she thinks because she dont want me anyway. i know what she will say if i do that she will use the ol well if you wanted us you wouldnt had done that or if you realy cared you wouldnt had done that idk what to do sorry for the long message.

[Ask April Masini]

Call the police and report her attack on you. That’s for starters. Anyone who gets violent needs more help than you can give her. 😳

Then figure out why you like someone who is so committed to drama and chaos. Before you can be in a healthy relationship, you have to be healthy yourself. For now, don’t have anything to do with her, and as you put it, “do you”. 🙂

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[Anonymous]

ITS SO HARD TO “DO ME” WHEN IM AFRAID OF MAKING HER MAD OR DISSAPOINTED EVEN WHEN WE ARE NOT TOGETHER ITS LIKE IM STUCK ON WHAT TO DO AND SHE WONT HELP ME

[Ask April Masini]

If you are more afraid of disappointing her than you are of getting assaulted, then you will never be in a healthy relationship. 😥 This will end badly if you stay with her. In order to find love and romance and companionship and respect, you have to be healthy and ready yourself. You’re not.

Call the police and tell them you need help because your girlfriend assaults you and you can’t get yourself to stop her. They will help you where I can’t. You can do this today.

I hope you find the courage to do the right thing.

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[Anonymous]

well we havent hung since then and she just says she has trust issues and isnt ready for anything now and she needs go thru this single stage and junk then she will find out im hnaging out having fun and says never talk to her or speak to her and stuff but i think we are pretty much done which sucks and i still cant get my mind off her and how goow it was and just when nowhere all because one stupid weekend and how she can say she loves me but can just quit so easy idk but thanks for all the advice

[Ask April Masini]

I’m sorry this is hard for you. Stay busy and get out there and do things that make you happy. Focus on yourself and your own physical and mental health. Go to the movies with friends. Eat out with family. Meet new people, and this time around, look for women who are kind, gentle, and interesting because of the good things they do — not because they have dark sides.

I hope that helps.

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