[MSavage96]

There’s a girl in one of my gen-ed classes whom I’m paired up with in a group that meets each lecture. I knew her before we enrolled a bit (friends with a girl I hooked up with a couple times). I had her added on snapchat but we didn’t really talk a whole lot. I got the impression she probably thought I was weird so whatever.

Today we got in our groups and we were the only ones in our group who showed up to class so we worked alone. I thought it was going to be just us casually working on what we needed to get done. Right away she started making funny comments and told a few jokes. We ended up carrying on a conversation the whole class, talking about how we hated the professor and that everyone in the class was taking the course too seriously. It took me by surprise, but it was fun. Whenever the conversation died down a bit, she’d try to say something new. She talked about her apartment and pets, even mentioned awkwardly how her ex was a roommate so it was weird for her to bring guys over. I don’t know if this was like some sign or just random fact she told me about.

I’m really interested in talking to her more, but how should I approach her? Should I maybe send her some funny message over snapchat? Does it even sound like she was flirty, or just being friendly? Looking back, I’ve noticed her sorta staring at me across the room at the start of the semester, but I thought it was maybe just because it was ironic that we knew each other and were taking the same course.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Ask her out on a casual date. Invite her for coffee or to see a movie and get ice cream afterwards. If she says yes, you’ll know that she’s interested in spending more time with you and getting to know you. If she says no, then you’ll understand she’s not interested and you can get back to being just classmates. The best way to figure out how someone feels about you is to make [i]yourself[/i] clear. And by inviting her on a date, you’re doing just that. 🙂

[Swera Khan]

When a girl says that she’s living with her ex and it’s hard to bring a guy home, she’s not just talking about the weather; she’s technically giving you a signal about her availability and boundaries.
If you are confused and want to know if a girl is interested in you or not, then you should follow the April expert advice and offer her a casual date. If she says yes, move on. If no, go back to being classmates

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