[Jenbug20]

So again, I am back. I met this guy (literally a week ago) he was introduced to me by my friend Ive known for about 3 years. It is her brother whom is 37 and I am going to be 26 (all too quickly). Anyway, he was in a long term relationship from what I have heard she broke it off with him. Anyway we hung out one night just casual playing dice at his sister (my friends) house. We stayed up until easily 1am just chatting and spending time together, we were laughing the entire time – great chemistry. The next morning we all decided to go hang out again ended up back at her house and we all watched a movie then I went home. He got my number. He text me Sunday and we were flirty back and forth. I responded to his text message he sent me late Sunday this morning and we began chatting again later today he basically asked me out again and when I say basically what he said was “I found this awesome spot above (insert name of city near where we live here) and I think we should go check it out” I said “Sounds great, Im down.” then we chatted a little back and forth and we both had to go because I had dinner plans and he was studying. He is a firefighter and also teaches at the local college. Anyway so I call his sister today because I have some stuff I wanted to drop off for her (clothes I borrowed) and we were arranging a time to meet up Friday to do that and she brought up the fact that she talked to her brother about me today and I asked oh what did he say and she said he told her that he was afraid to get into a serious relationship because there is a probability he might be moving out of the area and he did not want to hurt anyone. What do I do with this information? I dont want a screw buddy, not that he has at all implied that because he hasnt. I just dont know where to go from here….any advice? Do I ditch him or do I talk to him about this, I mean I am at a total loss?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Hi there! Since you’ve posted here before, please go back and repost this question as a “reply” to your last post here, so I can see the string of your questions, responses, etc., in one place. I can give you a much better answer to this current question that way. I’ll look out for the new post!

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[Jenbug20]

Okay I did it 🙂

Thank you.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re welcome!

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