Hey everyone… so my problem is that there is this girl at school that I like a lot…but I can’t tell if she likes me back. This girl and I have been close friends for about three years now. And we’ve been hanging out more and more recently but I still can’t tell if she feels the same way as I do. I’ve been looking for all the “hints” and I think I see some but I can’t be sure… I guess ill tell you what I’ve noticed and maybe you guys will have some good advice. So for starters she hugs me and stays very close to me every time I see her. But she is a really touchy-feely person so I don’t know if thats just her being friendly or if that’s actual attraction. She also holds my gaze for awhile too. Thirdly she compliments me a lot… either my smell or my hair or my clothing. Four we have held hands before quite a few times. But I don’t know if that’s the touchy-feely part of her or not. I’ve talked to her best friend asking if she knew if she liked me or not… she isn’t sure but said that it could just be her friendly personality. An I’m not sure if she acts the same around other guys because I’ve never seen her when shes around other guys that much. I took her to homecoming but just as friends though…(this was before I real liked her). At school we always see eachother. She doesn’t have any classes with me but we see eachother in the halls a after school just about ever day since homecoming she has been making a point of waiting for me in the Commons and then hugging me and striking up conversation with me. She doesn’t really play with her hair as its usually tied up. But she is constantly moving her feet around on the floor. I don’t know its weird…. 🙂 … but she always asks about me and if I’m coming to work concessions with her and…(she does blue note which is an afterschool thing where kids come to sing and play instruments and show off their skill)… and she asked what I thought and kept saying she thought she didn’t do great and asking my opinion over and over. Anyways…. these are pretty much all the things I’ve noticed and I’m not sure if I’m just and idiot who can’t see thar she obviously likes me or if she is just being friendly…
Man, next time you have a private moment with her, kiss her.
Don’t ask her friend or stuff. Make you own decision. She clearly likes you and you need to sort out if she is just teasing you or if she’s waiting for something more.
Be a man and take it to the next level.
If it works: congratulations.
If it doesn’t: you have been a man and made things move which is great for your experience.
Clearly: make a move.
