AskApril said, “Accept the competition,” but my advice is, “Make the competition irrelevant.” When you compete with someone else, you’re putting this artist in the third chair in your relationship, and she doesn’t even deserve a chair!
If he wants to stalk her at night? Fine. You focus on your skincare routine, your hobby, or a new skill. While he’s on his phone, get busy with your “glow-up.” When he looks up tired and sees that you’re not hungry for his attention, but rather the “queen” of your own world, he’ll automatically run after you.
Turn your insecurity into a “mystery.” Remember, when a man feels like his woman might slip away from him because she is only focusing on herself, that artist-warrior forgets everything and comes back to you.
