[stargurl14]

Hi April,

This story goes way back. 3 years ago, I saw this guy in University and instantly got a crush on him. He was in mostly all my classes and we used to have these eye locks like every day. Though, I could never get the courage to ask him out. I felt he was interested in me too because he used to look at me as well. One day, he came and sat next to me in a class. His friend left after the class ended and he wanted to say something but my friend called at the last second and I picked up the phone. I didn’t give him chance to talk to me. And he left without saying anything. After that, he kind of stopped looking at me much. But I was still head over heels over him. An year after that, I finally messaged him on facebook and asked him how he was and how did his semester went. He blocked me on facebook (though I am not sure if he knew it was me or not). At my graduation (last july), I caught him staring at me. I still think I have feelings for him. I mean even though him blocking me feels like he’s not interested but I still want him to know that I have a crush on him. Even becoming friends with him would be awesome. We have one mutual friend. But I have no idea, how to approach this issue now. Please give an advice on how to tell him about my feelings. Atleast I won’t have regrets and get a final closure if he’s still not interested.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

This is not a complicated situation! 😉 Here are a couple of guidelines to help you: Number one is NEVER ask a guy out on a date. I know you didn’t, but you did consider it, so don’t make that mistake. It won’t work in your favor. And number two is to flirt with him so he knows you’re interested in him as more than a friend (and by the way, DO NOT befriend a guy — especially one you’re interested in!). Flirting is a great way to give a guy the message that you’re interested and it gives him something to chase after. Try it. 😀

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[stargurl14]

[quote=”April Masini”]This is not a complicated situation! 😉 Here are a couple of guidelines to help you: Number one is NEVER ask a guy out on a date. I know you didn’t, but you did consider it, so don’t make that mistake. It won’t work in your favor. And number two is to flirt with him so he knows you’re interested in him as more than a friend (and by the way, DO NOT befriend a guy — especially one you’re interested in!). Flirting is a great way to give a guy the message that you’re interested and it gives him something to chase after. Try it. 😀

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Thanks April. But how do I get in contact with him? He blocked me on facebook.

[stargurl14]

Thanks for your help April. Though, how do i get in contact with him? We don’t know each other and I can’t message him on fb anymore.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like you lost the chance to try out your flirting on him. 😳 And his blocking you on Facebook isn’t a sign that he’s interested. Use what you learned from this failed attempt for the next guy you meet who’s interesting to you. 😀

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[stargurl14]

Here’s the complicated part, I have a bf but I can’t stop thinking about this guy who blocked me on facebook. 😥

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Well…. I still don’t see what the complication is. 😕

You have a relationship and you’re fantasizing about being with someone else. That’s pretty simple. Especially since the person you’re fantasizing about isn’t someone who’s in your life right now. He’s not someone you used to date. He’s basically a fantasy. Your relationship is probably not what you want it to be, and you can decide to do the work to make it what you want, or decide to break up with him and find someone else. 😉

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