[Anonymous]

Hello!

This all started back about 4 months ago when an acquaintaince and I ended up spending the night together. From then on we have become apart of the same circle of friends and I see him extremely often, but the catch is that we barely talk beyond the general ” Hi, how are you?” Since that night four months ago, we have ended up spending the night together on three other occasions. Mind you that we were both intoxicated 2 of those nights, and the last time we ended up going all of the way. His body language in the morning was just fine and I thought that maybe we had turned a new page, but we have barely spoken since (we don’t even have each other’s numbers!). While drunk we can have normal conversations, talk, flirt, and just hangout with out it being awkward at all and have learned much about each other because of this. He is also not the type of guy to just bring girls home either, he almost seems to have no priority in girls at all. Since knowing him I have never seen him with another girl besides myself and I am usually around often enough, or my friends are, to verify that. I have fallen for him and normally I could draw an emotional line but there is something different about his guy and his mysterious personality. He fits the profile of my “perfect match”. I just don’t understand the situation and what he is thinking at all and was hoping you could give me some insight!

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Wait a minute — your perfect match never asked you for your phone number, and hasn’t had the interest in you to take you out for dinner and a movie — not even once?! 😯

Let me help you clear up your confusion. This guy isn’t interested in you as anything other than a drunk one night stand, albeit a serial set of one night stands. If he was interested in you personally, you’d know it because he’d show interest in you when you’re not drunk and naked. 😕

You need to read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url] so you understand how to find, get and keep Mr. Right. This book will eliminate ANY AND ALL confusion you have. It will help you understand what a man’s behavior looks like when he’s interested in you and when you should sleep with someone for the first time.

Women have a tendency to get emotionally invested in a man they’re sleeping with. That’s what’s happened to you. Now you need to understand that he’s not interested in dating you — and why. Read the book and let me know how things go.

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