[swifty36]

A friend set me up on a blind date. Prior to meting my blind date we talked on the phone for a few weeks. We really hit it off. After talking on the phone for a few weeks I finally met him. We went on a date and had a very nice time. He is a gentleman. He wants to see me again. However, I am not physically attracted to this man. So after our first date I decided that we could just be friends. Therefore, I stopped calling him. However, he still calls me. When I don’t talk to him I miss him. I think I really do like him, but physically I am not attracted to him. The other problem is that I have a white collar job and he has a blue collar job. However, he seems to have a good heart and is a very nice person. I am in my 40s and he is in his early 50s. This man makes me smile. I am confused what should I do?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Try a few more dates — that’s my advice. Sometimes women [i]become[/i] physically attracted to men. It isn’t always about his initial chemistry. Sometimes he’s very sure of himself — and that’s sexy. Sometimes he’s got a great sense of humor — and that’s sexy. Sometimes, the way he kisses belies the way he looks!

The blue collar and white collar difference doesn’t have to be a deal breaker. He can be a successful blue collar employee and that success and confidence may be more appealing than an insecure white collar guy. So give it a little bit more of a chance and open your mind to get to know him a little more. You can always say no, but since you’re saying that you seem to miss him and he has some attributes that are attractive, you’re not quite done! 😉

Let me know how it goes!

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