[Anonymous]

There is this guy that i’ve known for 5 years. We’ve dated a couple times. Now i’ve come back from college and we’re talking again. He is telling me that he wants to be with me and that he has for 5 years but he isnt acting like it. He is blowing me off when i want to hang out, he wont answer my calls or texts. I think it’s because he is working all the time, and he has a baby on the way from his ex. Could he just be stressed out or not wanting to talk or is he really not interested in me like he says?

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Your instincts are correct. 🙂 He’s stressed out because he’s about to become a father with his ex-girlfriend and he’s looking to use you as a distraction. I always tell readers to judge behavior as a better indicator of character than language. When words and actions don’t match up, as you’re finding with this guy, behavior trumps whatever he says.

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